I am beginning to understand that vacations can be grouped into at least three different categories – especially for those of us with large families! There were the vacations you took BEFORE kids during those early years of your marriage, the vacations you took WITH the kids and finally, those you have taken (or will take) AFTER your kids are gone – or are too busy to take with you!
For the two of us, we are now entering into the third phase of our vacations. We started having kids over 30 years ago and I can count on one hand the trips we have taken without any kids during these years. We’ve taken some great trips with our kids to beaches, mountains, national parks, historic cities and sites and amusement parks. Most of those trips where designed to keep kids happy, entertained, fed, well-rested and healthy. They have been fast paced, jam-packed and expensive – even when we tried to cut costs.
Our kids tell amusing stories to each other and their friends about “sneaking” into hotel and resort rooms 2 or 3 at a time because a few places where we stayed were not designed for a family of 5 kids under the age of 10 – just so we could all stay in the same room or condo. Other stories include when their little sister actually slept in a make-shift “bed” in the bathtub during one trip because there were not enough beds for all five girls! (Please don’t report us to the authorities!)
This year’s “Short Family Vacation” was actually planned during a time when we thought several of our girls would be able to join us at a beach-side location where several of them had expressed an interest in visiting again. However, when it got closer to the designated week for our vacation only one of our grown daughters and her roommate were able to join us – and for only a couple of days. Although slightly disappointing to us, we realize that our new reality is that our girls have moved out (except for our youngest who is a busy college senior) and are now very engaged with their lives and their time-off from work and family responsibilities may not coincide with our “Short Family Vacations”.
Similarly, I’ve heard others relate housing needs to these three vacation categories – BEFORE kids (starter homes), WITH kids (that house with all of those bedrooms and bathrooms and a big back yard) and AFTER the kids have moved out (the house with the master bedroom on the main floor and a much smaller yard!). Many people who are changing their housing needs require the home loan services I provide.
As you or those you know find themselves starting-out, scaling-up or scaling-down I am able to be the experienced and trusted “Dream Maker, Problem Solver” to provide the tailor-made home loan solutions – so that no one in your family will find themselves sleeping in a bathtub! Can I count on you to give my name to the next friend, neighbor, co-worker or family member who would benefit from my home loan expertise and hands-on customer care?